Sunday, February 22, 2015

Swapping nude images spells danger for teens

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Police in Rhinelander, Wis., have long been aware that "sexting" — sending sexually explicit photos or text messages — is popular with teenagers.

But until November, when the mother of a Rhinelander High School student turned over a nude image of one of her son's classmates that she found on his cellphone, law enforcement officials had no idea the problem was so pervasive. That single image led police to identify dozens of students, all of whom had been trading explicit images with one another on a regular basis.

Screenshot from Gannett Wisconsin video accompanying investigative report on teen sexting.
(Photo: Screenshot)

"It was overwhelming how many kids were involved," said Oneida County sheriff's Lt. Terri Hook.

Most of the photos were "selfies," private photos that were taken and sent to a boyfriend or girlfriend. Many were forwarded on to friends or posted on social media sites both locally and around the country. In all, hundreds of photos snaked their way through the school; some wound up in the hands of people several states away, police said.

More than 40 students were involved in distributing teen pornography, police said. Few understood that just having the photos in their possession could have landed them in prison — and on the sex offender registry for life.

"For most of these kids, it didn't even seem like a big deal to them. It was just something they did, something they thought everybody did," Hook said.

When the investigation was over, Oneida County officials declined to prosecute. Instead, students and parents attended informational sessions meant to stop the behavior from happening again.

"We could have kept on investigating. We could have, I'm sure, found much more," Hook said. "We stopped, because what was really clear to us was that we had a problem."

The situation in Rhinelander is not uncommon in Wisconsin.

Many teens send sexually explicit photos on their cellphones believing the image will stay private, police and prosecutors say. Yet increasingly, the images are finding their way into the hands of sexual predators, and the teens themselves can be faced with harsh, lifelong penalties for their behavior.

Of the more than 130 million images containing child pornography examined since 2002 by the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, one in four were initially posted by minors themselves, said John Sheehan, executive director of the organization.

GRAVE CONSEQUENCES, SERIOUS RISKS

For teens, the consequences of sexting can go well beyond the humiliation of appearing naked on every cellphone in math class. A single image can easily jeopardize a job search or quickly torpedo a college application.

David A. Weaver
 (Photo: Submitted)

When those images wind up in the hands of the wrong people, the consequences can be disastrous.

At least 100 children from across the country fell into David Weaver's trap, police say.

Weaver, 51, of Cedarburg, not only collected sexually explicit images, he allegedly tricked teens into believing he was a young girl named "Sara." Once befriended by "Sara," the teens were persuaded to perform sex acts in front of webcams — alone, with friends and — most disturbingly — with dogs — while Weaver secretly recorded them, according to the federal complaint.

Once recorded, the video sessions were uploaded to file-sharing servers, where they were traded worldwide.

Investigators with the Wisconsin Division of Criminal Investigation found more than 250,000 chat threads between Weaver and children and more than 2,000 videos in Weaver's possession, according to court documents. Investigators say they are working to identify the children in the videos, one of whom is believed to be from Wisconsin.

Weaver has pleaded not guilty to producing child pornography.

BLACKMAIL AND MEETUPS

Some sexual predators use the nude images to blackmail teens into producing more pornography of themselves, or even to meet in person.

In 2009, Anthony Stancl of New Berlin was arrested after setting up a fake Facebook account in which he used a female persona to trick dozens of male classmates at Eisenhower High School into sending him nude cellphone photos of themselves, according to Waukesha County court records.

Once the photos were in hand, Stancl blackmailed seven of the students into performing sexual acts with him in parks, bathrooms and other locations after threatening to show the nude photos to other students, according to police.

Stancl was later convicted of sexual assault and sentenced to 15 years in prison.

Praveen Kharb, 38, of Gurgaon, India, appears at his arraignment.
 (Photo: Alison Dirr/Daily Herald Media)

Last year, parents in Marathon County called police when their 12-year-old daughter disclosed she had been raped by a 38-year-old man she met on Kik, a popular instant messaging application. An investigation showed Praveen Kharb, a native of India who was living in Bellevue, Wash., when the alleged crime took place, spent months communicating with the girl. He sent her expensive gifts before flying to the Wausau area to meet her, police said.

"The victim in this case had no idea she was dealing with a predator," said Theresa Wetzsteon, deputy district attorney for Marathon County.

Kharb has been extradited to Marathon County, where he has pleaded not guilty plea to first-degree sexual assault of a child. A jury trial is set for April.

LASTING EFFECTS

Despite efforts by school officials and law enforcement to stop the behavior, middle- and high-school students continue to swap racy photos in record numbers. Many parents are oblivious to what's happening on their child's phone, and most teens don't seem to understand the consequences.

Nationwide, nearly 40 percent of students said they had either sent or received a sexually explicit image of themselves, according to a 2014 survey by the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy, nearly double the rate of similar studies performed five years earlier.

Many students surveyed did not know that any sexually explicit image of a child age 17 or younger is considered child pornography. Simply having it is a felony.

"It's frustrating because you wonder, where does it end? Will it ever stop?" said Anthony Reince, a school resource officer with the Wausau Police Department. "In reality, the only way you can stop it is to prevent it from happening in the first place."

LEGAL REPERCUSSIONS

Sexting can also get teens in trouble with the law. Teens in several states, including Wisconsin, have been charged with felonies — including sexual abuse of a minor and distributing or possessing child pornography — for sexting, even when the nude images are traded with other teens.

Teens holding smartphones
 (Photo: nensuria, Getty Images/iStockphoto)

In 2012, state lawmakers passed into law a mandatory, minimum three-year prison sentence for possessing child pornography. Previously, judges had the discretion to order lesser penalties depending on the circumstances. That means a 17-year-old who receives explicit images from a younger friend can be sent to prison for possession of child pornography.

The consequences of sexting can be undoubtedly serious, especially when trading explicit images results in more serious crimes such as blackmail or sexual assault. But increasingly, judges and lawmakers recognize that criminalizing every case, especially those involving common teenage behavior, might not be the best response.

Some states have passed sexting-specific statutes to lessen the penalties against minors engaged in sexting. For example, Texas has passed a law that will impose a misdemeanor on a minor's first sexting offense. Under the statute, a minor may be sentenced to community supervision if he or she completes a state-sponsored sexting education course.

Elsewhere, a judge in Ohio crafted an unorthodox sentence to help a group of minors understand the harm of distributing nude photos of themselves.

Eight teens who traded nude photos on their phones were sentenced to complete a community-service project: The judge told them to poll their peers about the consequences of sexting. An overwhelming majority of their classmates did not know that trading sexually explicit photos among minors is illegal, according to media reports.


USA TODAY February 21, 2015


Thursday, February 12, 2015

Do you know the 7 dangers your kids face online?

Did you know 93% of boys and 62% of girls have been exposed to Internet pornography before the age of 18?

PIG2012-cover-dlpageInternet pornography is just one of the dangers facing your kids online. Have you thought about what else your kids are facing?

  • 76% of first encounters with online predators happen in chat rooms.
  • 51% of kid gamers, especially males (who prefer fighting games), play games online.
  • 40% of teens have seen pictures on social networking sites of kids getting drunk, passed out, or using drugs.
  • 39% of teens have sent or posted sexually suggestive messages.
  • 26% of teens and young adults say someone has written something about them online that was untrue.

Online interactions leave kids open to all sorts of dangers. Your kids need your help for how to stay safe online, and we’re here to help you do that.

Friday, February 6, 2015

Five apps that could be dangerous for kids

If you're a parent or grandparent, you know that kids pick up the latest technology lightning fast. Of course, that means the children in your life can also be using apps and visiting sites that are totally inappropriate for their ages. Worse yet, you might not even realize it.

Tinder is a dating app that underage kids have no business using.
 (Photo: Tinder)

Let's look at five dangerous apps that the children you deeply care about might be using and why they're dangerous.

1. Snapchat

Snapchat is a picture-messaging app whose claim to fame is that the messages last only for a few seconds once they're opened. Then the messages supposedly evaporate into thin air. In theory, you can send embarrassing or risque pictures without being afraid of someone stealing them or distributing them.

Unfortunately, the claim that Snapchat makes it safe to send risque pictures is just plain wrong. It's way too simple for anyone to grab a screenshot of the image before it's deleted. In fact, several teenage boys have gotten in serious legal trouble over the last few years for capturing and distributing illegal photos sent to them by underage girls.

Also, in October 2014 hackers got their hands on thousands of "deleted" Snapchat images that had been stored on third-party servers. While it wasn't exactly a breach of Snapchat, it's further proof that pictures don't always disappear.

In fairness, many teens use Snapchat for innocent picture-conversations with each other. And as Snapchat grows in popularity, the company is moving further away from its sexting association, but it's still a big concern.

If your teen is using Snapchat, ask them to show you how they're using it. Make sure that your teen is only communicating with people that they know, and that they realize the pictures they send don't just vanish forever. Remind them, "Once on the Internet, always on the Internet!"

2. Tinder

While Snapchat has uses besides sharing inappropriate images, Tinder is all about meeting new romantic partners, which probably isn't something you want your teen doing with strangers.

Tinder allows a person to create a profile and see images of potential romantic matches in the immediate area. The person can choose whether they're interested in another user or not. If two people like each other, then they can have a conversation through the app and potentially "hook up." Again, broadcasting images to strangers and potentially meeting them on a whim is not something teens should be doing, in my parental opinion.

Actually, underage teens aren't even supposed to be using this app. The only way to get on the app is to have a Facebook account with a birth date that indicates the user is over 18 years of age. Of course, it is just a simple keyboard entry for a child to set any birth date they wish. There is no verification of the user's age claim.

Any child who ends up on the app will be meeting people who are over legal age. They might come across predators, scammers and any variety of creeps that no one should have to deal with.

In short, Tinder is dangerous for kids. Keep them away from it.

3. Vine

Vine, the app that lets you record and share six-second videos, seems like a totally safe app at first. It gets dangerous when you consider how strong peer pressure is on social media.

Teens, as I'm sure you remember, will do almost anything for acceptance and attention. The best way to get attention on social media is to do something edgy or crazy. Last year, in the most dramatic example yet, teens across the world took to setting themselves on fire.

I'm not kidding. The #FireChallenge hashtag was one of the most popular in August. Click here for my coverage of the shocking trend. This isn't the first or last dangerous "game" to appear online. Click here to learn about seven other "games" your kids shouldn't be involved in.

In response to this, Vine just released the Vine Kids app, which features hand-selected videos that are supposed to be appropriate for younger audiences. Unlike the real Vine app, Vine Kids can't record videos. This might be good for younger kids, but I can guarantee older kids and teenagers will want to use the real Vine app.

If your kid does use Vine, or any social media site, be sure to friend, follow or join them on it to monitor what they're doing and saying. You might also occasionally look at their phone to confirm which apps they have installed, or even review their activity on the site. You'll want to know if they're running with a dangerous crowd or doing something stupid or worse.

4. Whisper

Whisper is an app built specifically for spreading rumors and secrets. It lets users post pictures and text anonymously. Apps like Whisper could potentially be a good outlet for teens as anonymous confessions can help people unburden themselves.

However, Whisper shares the secrets based on geographic location, so the users nearest to you are the ones more likely to see your secret. If your child reveals too much, it can put them in a dangerous situation with friends or adversaries.

The most dangerous apps for teens use GPS tracking to bring people physically together. Cyberbullying is much more hurtful when the person bullying your child moves from online to in-person abuse. In this case, Whisper seems like it could cause teens more harm than good.

5. 9Gag

9Gag is one of the most popular apps to distribute memes and pictures online. The risky part for teens lies within the fact that all kinds of pictures are shared on 9Gag. These pictures aren't moderated and could come from any uploader and feature terrible images you don't want kids seeing.

Not only that, but some 9Gag users are cyberbullies and abuse other users online. Many of the people guilty of "swatting," or getting the police to raid an innocent person's house, come from 9Gag. Click here to learn more about swatting and how to protect your kids from becoming a victim.

If your child has to get their humor fix from somewhere, always try to make sure that they're getting it from a place with rules and regulations that commit to keeping underage users protected.

If you're parenting today, here are two more important tips you might find useful:

• 7 dangerous games the kids play

• 5 places the kids hang out online (Hint: It's not Facebook!)

USA Today 2/6/15